You might be asking the wrong questions
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In 2022, I saw this post on Medium on how to respond when someone tells you that you are going to go to hell. It’s a subscriber only post, so you may…
If you are apprehensive about a conversation or a relationship, one tool you can use is to set boundaries. This is not often used but it can really…
I love Gretchen Rubin’s Four Tendencies as a way to understand both my and other people’s behavior. For those who aren’t familiar with her definitions…
Last week, I wrote about dealing with emotion. One of the most common emotions I experience in a conflict is anger. But am I right? Consider that the…
Sometime ago, I heard a conflict resolution specialist suggest that for the listening step, we can and should listen on three levels: content, emotion…
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This philosophical and religious question can be underneath many of our difficult conversations. I explain the reasons why people feel differently about…
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Mending Fractured Relationships