The premise of this newsletter is that, if we change our behavior, we can help heal relationships that have become difficult. This raises the question about the individual conversations that comprise our relationships: what do we want out of a single conversation?
“What do you want me to do, just listen or give you feedback?”
For me, this is the biggest one. For years I was ready to jump in and come up with all sorts of options (in my mind, answers), and all the other person wanted was for me to listen. I ask this question all the time now.
“What do you want me to do, just listen or give you feedback?”
For me, this is the biggest one. For years I was ready to jump in and come up with all sorts of options (in my mind, answers), and all the other person wanted was for me to listen. I ask this question all the time now.