I appreciate the way you’ve discussed the subtle underlying message sent by advice giving. It can be patronizing and insulting when it isn’t requested. It can be a game of cat and mouse. I like your suggestion of letting go of advice giving while staying engaged with questions showing interest.
Ironically, it is very good advice: not to give advice unsolicited. I have a friend who often gives advice to me which is at times useful, but when I think about it afterwards I feel put down. I've been wondering how to respond to her, maybe you can have some suggestions in future posts.
I appreciate the way you’ve discussed the subtle underlying message sent by advice giving. It can be patronizing and insulting when it isn’t requested. It can be a game of cat and mouse. I like your suggestion of letting go of advice giving while staying engaged with questions showing interest.
Ironically, it is very good advice: not to give advice unsolicited. I have a friend who often gives advice to me which is at times useful, but when I think about it afterwards I feel put down. I've been wondering how to respond to her, maybe you can have some suggestions in future posts.