Another reason people give me for not doing this work — the work of healing difficult relationships — is that it’s too hard. I want to acknowledge that it is hard to change your behavior. That’s why most people continue to repeat dysfunctional behavior. If you keep doing what you’ve been doing, you’ll keep getting what you’ve been getting.
The barrier of “It’s too hard”
The barrier of “It’s too hard”
The barrier of “It’s too hard”
Another reason people give me for not doing this work — the work of healing difficult relationships — is that it’s too hard. I want to acknowledge that it is hard to change your behavior. That’s why most people continue to repeat dysfunctional behavior. If you keep doing what you’ve been doing, you’ll keep getting what you’ve been getting.