Dear Karen, I am writing to you because I think of you as the 21st equivalent of Dear Abby for relationships that are impacted by politics. I have a problem that I hope you can help with. My husband and I have been members of the same church for decades. We raised our children in it, and I have many friends I’ve met through the church. I guess I’m lucky, because unlike some other churches I hear about, my church is trying to be welcoming for all, but it isn’t working for me. That’s because my husband and I are Republicans and most other members aren’t. The minister says the right things from the pulpit, but then things happen that don’t fit. I’ll give you a couple of examples. The minister sent out a link to an article from the New York Times to be used in a Bible study and the headline was critical of Republicans. It was supposed to be a Bible study! I didn’t feel comfortable attending that so-called “Bible” study!
I really enjoyed reading this. Until recently, I encountered this situation pretty much on a daily basis. I just listen to whatever the person wants to share and most of the time, my opinion is not solicited. People just want a listener. However, I also believe that creating a safe arena for honest discussion and sharing of ideas is crucial to unite. There is so much separation as it is, perhaps due to fear.
I really enjoyed reading this. Until recently, I encountered this situation pretty much on a daily basis. I just listen to whatever the person wants to share and most of the time, my opinion is not solicited. People just want a listener. However, I also believe that creating a safe arena for honest discussion and sharing of ideas is crucial to unite. There is so much separation as it is, perhaps due to fear.